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- Single Woman -
Yeah, I know you're over it & over them.
Men have not done right by your grandmothers, mothers, aunts, sisters, cousins, friends...you.
The endless parade of rachet, irresponsible men can be frustrating.
Honestly, you just don't understand why you can't find a decent guy who will love you, correctly.
Its easier and safe to stop trying and focus on living your best life as a single woman.
After all, there's a lot you can do on your own... from traveling the world to devoting yourself to your business or ministry to seeing Beyonce and Blue Ivy rip the stage.
The world is yours.
But for some annoying reason, despite the fact that you sworn off of men, and built an amazing life...
You still feel the desire for companionship
Pssst... its safe to say that here, by the way...
God made us this way to its good.
Sure, you can try to ignore it because it seems to be the most logical and powerful thing you can do.
But the reality is, the desire for companionship is still there.
Despite how many times you tell yourself:
"most married women are probably miserable"
"logistically speaking, women outnumber men so not everyone will be married"
"I have a great life without him, I'll lean into that."
"I'm just waiting on God"
"If it happens, good...if it doesn't good."
But you're secretly hoping you're one of the ones that it does happen for.
But its scary or exhausting to think of getting out there or meeting someone only to be disappointed or mistreated....again.
It almost feels foolish to
even hope it can happen.
You see it happen for her over there but...
YOU'VE BOUGHT INTO THE IDEA
That doesn't happen for girls like me who are accomplished, successful, educated, healed, tall, skinny, strong, short, fat, happily single, busy, shy, no non-sense, waiting on God....you name it.
Sis, we all come up with survival statements and tactics that help us keep that nagging urge for companionship at bay.
Just in case no one else has told you:
You don't have to fight or resist the urge for companionship.
There is a world that exists where you can lean into and explore that desire without:
- hurting yourself
- breaking your own heart
- adding to your frustration
- lowering your standards
- setting yourself up for disappointment
- compromising your values.
I'm not telling you what I've studied as a therapist and relationship coach.
I'm telling you what I've lived.
I'm a woman who quite literally took 40 years to circle the same mountain of doubt, disbelief and discouragement regarding men, dating and marriage...
AND I KNOW THIS FOR SURE
The issue isn't the dating pool, its not the city you're living in. Its not the lack of single men at your church. Its not the podcasters' rhetoric. Its not the music, movies or culture.
Its none of the things we seem to think are unique to dating in 2025.
Dating has ALWAYS had an assortment of challenges... including but not limited to:
- Commitment-phobes
- Incels and Red Pill Communities
- Inconsistency
- Men seeking pleasure rather than connection
The issue is that the internet has made these things more visible.
Yet, through the decades people have still been able to find and build happy, lasting, healthy relationships.
So we know it's possible...despite the challenges.
The million dollar question is:
HOW DO YOU BECOME ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE?
There are 3 things you'll have to address:
1) What happened to you isn't your fault but your transformation is your responsibility.
Yes, he cheated, he lied, he was abusive. But the ways it negatively impacted you are your responsibility.
2) Be honest about what you really want.
Let your actions AND words line up. If you want to be married, own it and act accordingly.
3) Prioritize becoming the person who can have the type of healthy, happy relationship those people have.
Though you're not dating now and are busy with other parts of your life, if you want to be married, NOW is the time to prepare for that; not when you make time for dating. Sis, that part of your life isn't growing because you aren't watering it.
Its time to make preparing for healthy love a priority if you want success in that area of your life.
Better
Relationships
Start Here.
It’s time to detox from the heartbreak, patterns, and
self-sabotaging stories that have been blocking your "winning in love" era.
The Soul Detox for Single Women is a soul care program rooted in Biblical Principles designed to help you get clear, healed, and prepared to receive real, healthy love with the man of your dreams.
HEALING THE IMPACT OF RELATIONSHIP TRAUMAS
The Soul Detox is for the woman who...
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Is preparing for marriage or a long-term commitment
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Is healing from a past relationship or divorce
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Is having trouble meeting "the one"
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Struggling to forgive themselves or others
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Grew up in a challenging or dysfunctional family environment
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Struggles with social anxiety or making meaningful connections
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Is struggling to find "the one" or worried about staying single
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Has experienced repeated patters of toxic friendships or difficulty forming new ones
How it works.
Step 1: Choose your Soul Detox coaching package below.
Step 2: You’ll receive a welcome email with important info and a few documents to review and sign.
Step 3: Once your signed documents are submitted, you’ll get an invitation to log in and complete your virtual orientation.
Step 4: After orientation, you’ll begin the first section of Module One. A new section will unlock every other week to keep your progress steady and focused.
Step 5: Join our live coaching call on the first Tuesday of each month to discuss your progress, ask questions, and get support. You can also post your thoughts and questions in our private discussion board on Teachable between sessions.
The Soul Detox journey happens in two phases:
The first six months are focused on transformational inner work.
The next six months provide guided coaching and implementation support as you begin applying what you’ve learned in real life.
Therapy vs Christian Soul Care
Therapy helps you sort through what you’re feeling and thinking, but soul care goes deeper.
It uproots the core of lingering emotions, hidden triggers, and faulty beliefs that keep showing up in your relationships and mindset, and negatively impacting your ability to make a healthy connection.
THERAPY
Focuses on coping mechanisms and managing symptoms
Aims to understand and process emotions and experiences
Often centered on cognitive-behavioral approaches
May not necessarily address spiritual or deeper existential questions
Primarily seeks to alleviate symptoms and improve mental health
CHRISTIAN SOUL CARE
Focuses on uprooting underlying triggers and root causes
Aims to achieve emotional peace and inner transformation
Biblically grounded and holistic approach to wholeness
Explores deeper issues of trauma in relation to oneself and others
Cultivates a deeper sense of inner peace, joy, and fulfillment
What past clients are saying
A Message From The Soul Detox Creator and Lead Facilitator
As the creator and first student of the Soul Detox program, this journey isn’t just something I coach. It’s something I've lived.
I was the quintessential single woman, busy in the kingdom and telling myself that I was ready for a Christ-centered relationship and would recognize it if it presented itself.
The reality was, I wasn’t waiting on God. God was waiting on me to explore the deep places within, clear emotional clutter, and prepare for the type of love I had been praying for.
What I thought was discernment was actually fear.
What I thought was clear boundaries and knowing what I wanted was really control.
Who I thought was “the one”... wasn’t.
It took heartbreak, prayer, and the Soul Detox to uncover this truth.
3 John 1:2 says, “Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers.” True soul prosperity comes when we do our part and trust God to do His. It’s not just about letting go of the past, but making space for the future He has planned.
It’s about partnering with Him to clear the path to a healthier, more fulfilling relationship with God, yourself, and eventually, Mr. Right.
WEDDING DAY: I met the man I would eventually marry just 30 days after completing my Soul Detox. When your soul is clear, God is free to deliver the love you desire.
The next phase in reaching your love goal is SOUL CARE!
Start Your Soul Detox Today (2 Options)
You’ve prayed for love, but deep down you’re tired of the waiting, the hoping, and the almosts.
The Soul Detox walks you through two powerful steps each month to help you clear the emotional baggage, break old patterns, and shift how you show up in love and dating.
If you’re ready to stop circling the same mountain and start preparing for the relationship you actually want, this is your next move. Choose your package below during this introductory period. Cancel anytime.
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